2008年10月13日星期一
Sex and the City: Summary
SUMMARY
Airs Next:HBO at Sunday 9:00 PM (30 min.)Status:Ended Premiered:June 6, 1998 Last Aired:February 22, 2004 Show Categories:Comedy, DramaCarrie Bradshaw writes a column about sex and relationships in New York city. With three of her closest friends: Samantha Jones, who owns her own PR firm and is more interested in exciting "one-nighters" than long-term relationships; Miranda Hobbes, a cynical lawyer who prioritizes her career over her erratic lovelife, and Charlotte York, an art gallery curator who is a bit prudish when it comes to sex, but hasn't yet lost her faith in finding true love.
Based on the bestselling book by Candace Bushnell, "Sex and the City" revolves around the lives of four young professional women in search of the perfect relationship...and orgasm!
Carrie Bradshaw writes a column about sex and relationships in New York city. With three of her closest friends: Samantha Jones, who owns her own PR firm and is more interested in exciting "one-nighters" than long-term relationships; Miranda Hobbes, a cynical lawyer who prioritizes her career over her erratic lovelife, and Charlotte York, an art gallery curator who is a bit prudish when it...
Airs Next:HBO at Sunday 9:00 PM (30 min.)Status:Ended Premiered:June 6, 1998 Last Aired:February 22, 2004 Show Categories:Comedy, DramaCarrie Bradshaw writes a column about sex and relationships in New York city. With three of her closest friends: Samantha Jones, who owns her own PR firm and is more interested in exciting "one-nighters" than long-term relationships; Miranda Hobbes, a cynical lawyer who prioritizes her career over her erratic lovelife, and Charlotte York, an art gallery curator who is a bit prudish when it comes to sex, but hasn't yet lost her faith in finding true love.
Based on the bestselling book by Candace Bushnell, "Sex and the City" revolves around the lives of four young professional women in search of the perfect relationship...and orgasm!
Carrie Bradshaw writes a column about sex and relationships in New York city. With three of her closest friends: Samantha Jones, who owns her own PR firm and is more interested in exciting "one-nighters" than long-term relationships; Miranda Hobbes, a cynical lawyer who prioritizes her career over her erratic lovelife, and Charlotte York, an art gallery curator who is a bit prudish when it...
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6 Sex Mistakes Men Make
WebMD offers experts' sex tips for men who have sex with women.
By Martin F. Downs
WebMD FeatureReviewed by Louise Chang, MDHey guys, think you know everything there is to know about having sex with women? That erotic encyclopedia you carry around in your head may contain a lot of basic errors and omissions about women's sexuality -- errors that can lead to sex mistakes.
That's because -- after learning the facts of life -- most of us are left to figure out sex for ourselves. Guys tend to take a lot of cues from adult movies, and we all know how true-to-life those are. Experience may help, but many women can be shy when talking about what they like.
To help us with some sex tips, WebMD asked two acclaimed sex educators, Tristan Taormino and Lou Paget, to tell us what they think are the most common sex mistakes men make with women.
Taormino is a prolific author, lecturer, and video producer. Her latest project is the Expert Guide educational video series from Vivid Ed.
Paget is author of The Great Lover Playbook and other sex manuals, and she gives seminars nationwide.
Sex Mistake No.1: You Know What She Wants
Men often make assumptions about what a woman wants based upon what they've done with other women. But women aren't all the same.
"You develop a repertoire as you mature sexually, but you should never assume that what worked for the last person is going to work for this person," Taormino says.
That applies not only to sexual predilections, but also to relationships, she says. "There are women who can have no-strings-attached sex, and women who can get attached very easily, and then everyone in between."
Sex Mistake No. 2: You Have All She Needs
Some women can't have an orgasm with less than 3,000 rpm. No human tongue or fingers can generate that kind of vibration. But men typically think something is wrong if a woman needs a vibrator.
"If the only way that a woman can achieve orgasm is with a vibrator, she's not broken," Taormino says.
Think of a vibrator as your assistant, not your substitute. Many couples use vibrators together. "While you're doing one thing, or two things, the vibrator can be doing something else," Taormino says.
Sex Mistake No. 3: Sex Feels the Same for Men and Women
Paget says there tends to be a "huge disconnect" between men and women in the ways that sex feels good.
"When a man has intercourse with a woman, and his penis goes into her body, that sensation is so off the charts for most men, they cannot imagine that it isn't feeling the same way for her," Paget says. "It couldn't be further from the truth."
The inside of the vagina is probably less sensitive than the outer parts for most women. Also, deep thrusting may not feel so nice on the receiving end. If the penis is too long, "it feels like you're getting punched in the stomach," Paget says. "It makes you feel nauseous."
Sex Mistake No. 4: You Know Your Way Around a Woman's Anatomy
Most guys know generally what a clitoris is and where to find it. That's not to say that they really understand it.
More than 30 years ago, at the start of the "sexual revolution," a best-selling book called the Joy of Sex got Americans hip to the orgasmic importance of the clitoris. But the belief that women must be able to orgasm from vaginal penetration stubbornly persists.
"I still get letters from people who say things like, my wife can't [orgasm] from intercourse unless she has clitoral stimulation -- please help," Taormino says. "I want to write back and say, 'OK, what's the problem?'"
"For the majority of women, it's not going to happen that way," Paget says.
Men also lack information about how to touch it and how sensitive it is, Taormino says.
A touch that's bliss for one woman may feel like nothing special, or may even be painful for someone else. Some prefer indirect stimulation.
How can you find out how she likes to be touched? Try asking her.
Sex Mistake No. 5: Wet = Turned On
Guys sometimes get hung up if a woman doesn't get slippery enough for easy penetration. Don't worry about it.
"I think there's a myth that if you're turned on, you're wet," Taormino says. Not necessarily.
Some women tend to get wetter than others, and how much natural lubrication a woman has can change from day to day. It varies by the phase of her menstrual cycle, and it's subject to influences like stress and medications.
Sex Mistake No. 6: Silence Is Golden
A lot of guys think they should be silent during sex, but unless you speak up, your partner has to guess what's doing it for you and what isn't.
If you're respectful about it, a woman who wants to please you will probably appreciate some directions.
"I'm not saying push her head in your lap," Taormino says. "I think that, 'this is how I like it,' is a very useful conversation to have."
By Martin F. Downs
WebMD FeatureReviewed by Louise Chang, MDHey guys, think you know everything there is to know about having sex with women? That erotic encyclopedia you carry around in your head may contain a lot of basic errors and omissions about women's sexuality -- errors that can lead to sex mistakes.
That's because -- after learning the facts of life -- most of us are left to figure out sex for ourselves. Guys tend to take a lot of cues from adult movies, and we all know how true-to-life those are. Experience may help, but many women can be shy when talking about what they like.
To help us with some sex tips, WebMD asked two acclaimed sex educators, Tristan Taormino and Lou Paget, to tell us what they think are the most common sex mistakes men make with women.
Taormino is a prolific author, lecturer, and video producer. Her latest project is the Expert Guide educational video series from Vivid Ed.
Paget is author of The Great Lover Playbook and other sex manuals, and she gives seminars nationwide.
Sex Mistake No.1: You Know What She Wants
Men often make assumptions about what a woman wants based upon what they've done with other women. But women aren't all the same.
"You develop a repertoire as you mature sexually, but you should never assume that what worked for the last person is going to work for this person," Taormino says.
That applies not only to sexual predilections, but also to relationships, she says. "There are women who can have no-strings-attached sex, and women who can get attached very easily, and then everyone in between."
Sex Mistake No. 2: You Have All She Needs
Some women can't have an orgasm with less than 3,000 rpm. No human tongue or fingers can generate that kind of vibration. But men typically think something is wrong if a woman needs a vibrator.
"If the only way that a woman can achieve orgasm is with a vibrator, she's not broken," Taormino says.
Think of a vibrator as your assistant, not your substitute. Many couples use vibrators together. "While you're doing one thing, or two things, the vibrator can be doing something else," Taormino says.
Sex Mistake No. 3: Sex Feels the Same for Men and Women
Paget says there tends to be a "huge disconnect" between men and women in the ways that sex feels good.
"When a man has intercourse with a woman, and his penis goes into her body, that sensation is so off the charts for most men, they cannot imagine that it isn't feeling the same way for her," Paget says. "It couldn't be further from the truth."
The inside of the vagina is probably less sensitive than the outer parts for most women. Also, deep thrusting may not feel so nice on the receiving end. If the penis is too long, "it feels like you're getting punched in the stomach," Paget says. "It makes you feel nauseous."
Sex Mistake No. 4: You Know Your Way Around a Woman's Anatomy
Most guys know generally what a clitoris is and where to find it. That's not to say that they really understand it.
More than 30 years ago, at the start of the "sexual revolution," a best-selling book called the Joy of Sex got Americans hip to the orgasmic importance of the clitoris. But the belief that women must be able to orgasm from vaginal penetration stubbornly persists.
"I still get letters from people who say things like, my wife can't [orgasm] from intercourse unless she has clitoral stimulation -- please help," Taormino says. "I want to write back and say, 'OK, what's the problem?'"
"For the majority of women, it's not going to happen that way," Paget says.
Men also lack information about how to touch it and how sensitive it is, Taormino says.
A touch that's bliss for one woman may feel like nothing special, or may even be painful for someone else. Some prefer indirect stimulation.
How can you find out how she likes to be touched? Try asking her.
Sex Mistake No. 5: Wet = Turned On
Guys sometimes get hung up if a woman doesn't get slippery enough for easy penetration. Don't worry about it.
"I think there's a myth that if you're turned on, you're wet," Taormino says. Not necessarily.
Some women tend to get wetter than others, and how much natural lubrication a woman has can change from day to day. It varies by the phase of her menstrual cycle, and it's subject to influences like stress and medications.
Sex Mistake No. 6: Silence Is Golden
A lot of guys think they should be silent during sex, but unless you speak up, your partner has to guess what's doing it for you and what isn't.
If you're respectful about it, a woman who wants to please you will probably appreciate some directions.
"I'm not saying push her head in your lap," Taormino says. "I think that, 'this is how I like it,' is a very useful conversation to have."
On Sex-Ed Ad, McCain Is Right
By Byron York
In recent days, a consensus has developed among the Obama campaign and commentators in the press that John McCain has decided to lie his way to the White House. Exhibit A in this new consensus is McCain’s ad, released last week, claiming that Barack Obama’s “one accomplishment” in the field of education was “legislation to teach ‘comprehensive sex education’ to kindergartners.”
Within moments of the ad’s appearance, the Obama campaign called it “shameful and downright perverse.” The legislation in question, a bill in the Illinois State Senate that was supported but not sponsored by Obama, was, according to Obama campaign spokesman Bill Burton, “written to protect young children from sexual predators” and had nothing to do with comprehensive sex education for kindergartners. In a stinging final shot, Burton added, “Last week, John McCain told Time magazine he couldn’t define what honor was. Now we know why.”
↓ Keep reading this article ↓
Steyn: The Indefinable Barack Obama
Barone: The Coming Obama Thugocracy
Kudlow: The Light at the End of the Crisis
Interview: The Real Maggie O’Connell
Hemingway: Saving Silverman
McNeal: Inside Saddam’s Trial
VerBruggen: The Number-Crunchers
Capretta: The Dems’ Health-Care Distortions
Hanson: Not Over Yet
Interview: American Caroler
Editors: Jive Turkey Rides Again
Freddoso: What’s Left of McGovern?
Nordlinger: Iraq Journal, Part III
Antos: Obama’s $2,500 Promise
Krauthammer: Questions of Character
Goldberg: The Best Laid Plans . . .
Newspaper, magazine, and television commentators quickly piled on. “The kindergarten ad flat-out lies,” wrote the New York Times, arguing that “at most, kindergarteners were to be taught the dangers of sexual predators.” The Washington Post wrote that “McCain’s ‘Education’ Spot is Dishonest, Deceptive.” And in a column in The Hill, the influential blogger Josh Marshall called the sex-education spot “a rancid, race-baiting ad based on [a] lie. Willie Horton looks mild by comparison.”
The condemnation has been so widespread that the Obama campaign has begun to sense success in placing the “McCain-is-a-liar” storyline in the press. But before accepting the story at face value, it might first be a good idea to examine the bill in question, look at the statements made by its supporters at the time it was introduced, talk to its sponsors today (at least the ones who will consent to speak), and find answers to a few basic questions. What were the bill’s provisions? Why was it written? Was it really just, or even mostly, about inappropriate advances? And the bottom-line question: Is McCain’s characterization of it unfair?
21st-CENTURY SEX EDUCATION
The bill in question was Senate Bill 99, introduced in the Senate in February 2003. Its broad purpose was to change and update portions of Illinois’s existing laws concerning sex education. (The text of the bill is here, and everyone interested in the issue should take a look at it.)
When the bill was introduced, a coalition of groups including the Illinois Public Health Association, the Illinois State Medical Society, the Cook County Department of Public Health, the Chicago Department of Public Health, the Illinois Planned Parenthood Council and others issued a press release headlined “Coalition of Legislators, Physicians and Organizations Bring Illinois Into the 21st Century with Omnibus Healthcare Package.” It was a three-part campaign; Senate Bill 99, covering “medically accurate sex education,” was the first part, with two other bills addressing “funding for family planning services for women in need” and “contraceptive equity in health insurance.”
According to the press release, Senate Bill 99 required that “if a public school teaches sex education, family life education, and comprehensive health education courses, all materials and instruction must be medically and factually accurate.” The bill’s main sponsor, Sen. Carol Ronen, was quoted saying, “It teaches students about the advantages of abstinence, while also giving them the realistic information they need about the prevention of an unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections.” The release contained no mention of sexual predators or inappropriate touching.
In recent days, a consensus has developed among the Obama campaign and commentators in the press that John McCain has decided to lie his way to the White House. Exhibit A in this new consensus is McCain’s ad, released last week, claiming that Barack Obama’s “one accomplishment” in the field of education was “legislation to teach ‘comprehensive sex education’ to kindergartners.”
Within moments of the ad’s appearance, the Obama campaign called it “shameful and downright perverse.” The legislation in question, a bill in the Illinois State Senate that was supported but not sponsored by Obama, was, according to Obama campaign spokesman Bill Burton, “written to protect young children from sexual predators” and had nothing to do with comprehensive sex education for kindergartners. In a stinging final shot, Burton added, “Last week, John McCain told Time magazine he couldn’t define what honor was. Now we know why.”
↓ Keep reading this article ↓
Steyn: The Indefinable Barack Obama
Barone: The Coming Obama Thugocracy
Kudlow: The Light at the End of the Crisis
Interview: The Real Maggie O’Connell
Hemingway: Saving Silverman
McNeal: Inside Saddam’s Trial
VerBruggen: The Number-Crunchers
Capretta: The Dems’ Health-Care Distortions
Hanson: Not Over Yet
Interview: American Caroler
Editors: Jive Turkey Rides Again
Freddoso: What’s Left of McGovern?
Nordlinger: Iraq Journal, Part III
Antos: Obama’s $2,500 Promise
Krauthammer: Questions of Character
Goldberg: The Best Laid Plans . . .
Newspaper, magazine, and television commentators quickly piled on. “The kindergarten ad flat-out lies,” wrote the New York Times, arguing that “at most, kindergarteners were to be taught the dangers of sexual predators.” The Washington Post wrote that “McCain’s ‘Education’ Spot is Dishonest, Deceptive.” And in a column in The Hill, the influential blogger Josh Marshall called the sex-education spot “a rancid, race-baiting ad based on [a] lie. Willie Horton looks mild by comparison.”
The condemnation has been so widespread that the Obama campaign has begun to sense success in placing the “McCain-is-a-liar” storyline in the press. But before accepting the story at face value, it might first be a good idea to examine the bill in question, look at the statements made by its supporters at the time it was introduced, talk to its sponsors today (at least the ones who will consent to speak), and find answers to a few basic questions. What were the bill’s provisions? Why was it written? Was it really just, or even mostly, about inappropriate advances? And the bottom-line question: Is McCain’s characterization of it unfair?
21st-CENTURY SEX EDUCATION
The bill in question was Senate Bill 99, introduced in the Senate in February 2003. Its broad purpose was to change and update portions of Illinois’s existing laws concerning sex education. (The text of the bill is here, and everyone interested in the issue should take a look at it.)
When the bill was introduced, a coalition of groups including the Illinois Public Health Association, the Illinois State Medical Society, the Cook County Department of Public Health, the Chicago Department of Public Health, the Illinois Planned Parenthood Council and others issued a press release headlined “Coalition of Legislators, Physicians and Organizations Bring Illinois Into the 21st Century with Omnibus Healthcare Package.” It was a three-part campaign; Senate Bill 99, covering “medically accurate sex education,” was the first part, with two other bills addressing “funding for family planning services for women in need” and “contraceptive equity in health insurance.”
According to the press release, Senate Bill 99 required that “if a public school teaches sex education, family life education, and comprehensive health education courses, all materials and instruction must be medically and factually accurate.” The bill’s main sponsor, Sen. Carol Ronen, was quoted saying, “It teaches students about the advantages of abstinence, while also giving them the realistic information they need about the prevention of an unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections.” The release contained no mention of sexual predators or inappropriate touching.
Find Yourself a new Boy
Find Yourself a new Boy
Just a quick hello & a couple of tunes to show i'm still alive!
Though it was out a couple of weeks ago, the Late of the Pier album is great... possibly my favourite of the year so far.
It sounds like this:
I was recently sent an excellent remix of 'Bathroom Gurgle' by Artwork. Artwork were once known as Project New City & I once posted a track of theirs (On Arrival in Narita) from the first I Can Count compilation. This remix drops much of the Bowieisms & glam rock in favour of some uplifting synths & squelchy Digitalisms. The song sounds born this way.
LATE OF THE PIER - BATHROOM GURGLE (ARTWORK REMIX)
Forthcoming on October 6th are some remixes of Liquid Liquid's classic 'Optimo'... by Optimo themselves (naturally), Tim 'DFA' Goldsworthy, Matthew Dear & some guy called DJ Sample. It's the latter that i'm drawn to, with some classic techno chords swirling round the inevitable cowbell & that unmistakable jabbering vocal.
LIQUID LIQUID - OPTIMO (DJ SAMPLE REMIX)
Like the last few of their compilations, the new Kitsune Maison (Volume 6) is a mixed bag. As usual there are gems within though... usually when diverting from the electro house formula.
The opening track by Lo-Fi Fnk reminds me of how good they are, and I really enjoyed the track by Pnau. My favourite though is the closing track by Appaloosa (which was also the name used for some great drum 'n' bass tracks by Global Communication back in the day).
I'd been searching for an mp3 of this since reading about it in the Guardian & listening on myspace, so the CD dropped through the door with perfect timing. Ths song begins with a French chanteuse accompanied by piano... and just when you start to think 'hang on, she can't sing too well can she', a drum beat and a repeated chorus take you away into memory bliss.
APPALOOSA - THE DAY (WE FELL IN LOVE)
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Tuesday, September 09, 2008
I Heart Norway
I'm just back from a FANTASTIC weekend at the Numusic festival in Stavanger, Norway. I was lucky enough to be playing some records, but also got to stay & enjoy the Nuart part of the festival, where top graffiti artists like D*Face, Nick Walker, Herakut, Dolk, Know Hope & Zeus spend some time decorating the venue & city.
The whole festival was so inspiring. DJ Pinch & MC Dread were a particular highlight for me, having never experienced live dubstep in such an intimate environment. I felt it was a bit of an awakening for me.
DJ PINCH - BRIGHTER DAY
Copenhagen grime MC Lucy Love also killed it, with some sharp rhymes over tough minimal 909 beats.
Zombie Zombie were as awesome as ever & put me into a complete joyful trance. If you've not seen this unofficial 'The Thing' inspired video then check it.. it's ace.
Nouvelle Vague & Datarock were predictably great... and it was fantastic to see A Certain Ratio tear through 'Shack Up'.
A CERTAIN RATIO - SHACK UP
Lindstrom was mesmerising, though I think his set was cut short a little, and Pivot were immense. Intricate parts welded to beautiful melodies & crashing noise. Their new album on Warp (O Soundtrack My Heart) is excellent... check the following track & also 'Didn't I Furious' (which I posted a few months ago)/
PIVOT - SWEET MEMORY
Here's a small selection of pictures from NuArt, but check my friend Ian's for much better & more (he was official photographer or something).
All in all it was a pretty wonderful weekend, and if you're looking for a more interesting festival experience next year I can't recommend it enough. The music was fantastic, the girls are beautiful (and very friendly...), and the art is always superb.
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Wednesday, August 27, 2008
Banksy in New Orleans
Some fantastic new Banksy pieces up in the States. Some seem a response to a government clean up guy known as the 'Grey Ghost' who's been indiscriminately covering any graffiti in New Orleans with ugly grey paint. These are great:
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Saturday, August 16, 2008
I Like Candy
Since my last post i've turned 34, watched Batman (bit shit innit), got pissed at 5 art openings, gone to one of the last meetings at Walthamstow dogs, DJd on a porn set and watched a lot of Olympics (Yay, just stayed up to watch Rebecca Adlington win her second Gold... just need now for Chris Hoy & Bradley Wiggins to come back with 3 each!)
All of which means i'm a bit late in running this competition for three signed copies of the new Glimmers CD 'The Glimmers are Gee Gee Fazzi'. To win email me by midnight Tuesday with the names of the two Glimmer Twins.
It contains this amazing sleazy cover of Olivia Newton-John's 'Physical', so is well worth having.
THE GLIMMERS - PHYSICAL
And let us not forget that ON-J was rather hot in her day.
This is to do with a 'Hidden Depths' event that Chromeo are curating next Thursday. The line-up is secret, but looks pretty amazing from what i've seen. You can register for tickets here.
There are quite a few new 12"a coming on DFA, by people like Mock & Toof, Juan MacLean, Yacht and Runaway. The undoubted highlight is this Holy Ghost! remix of Panthers, that's every bit as good as their own 'Hold On'. Shimmering disco sounds drag you into a druggy haze, while the laid back 'on and on and on and on' vocal reminds you that the music keeps on playing all night long.
PANTHERS - GOBLIN CITY (HOLY GHOST! REMIX)
Coming soon on Merok records is 'La Basta' by LA band Rainbow Arabia. As the name suggests, there's an Arabian influence to their sound. A couple of husband & wife punks lost in the desert with nothing but a 4-track for company. Pretty awesome.
RAINBOW ARABIA - OMAR K
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Tuesday, August 05, 2008
Dogs aren't funny
It wasn't entirely sensible asking to be sent youtube clips while my internet connection was suffering one of it's regular 'even worse than usual' phases. A 0.1 MB connection is no fucking use for watching video.
Being the internet, I was basically sent a load of cats. Fantastic!
Dramatic Cat
Boxing Cat
Simon's Cat
Vicious Cat
Savage Cat Attack
Plus some crap stuff, some old stuff, some dodgy records and a LOL
After borrowing one of the national lottery machines for the evening, the name I plucked out of the draw was Craig Porter. Yay for Craig. He now has two tickets for Field Day.
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Competition
I forgot to say that if you want to go to Field Day you have until midnight tonight to entertain me via youtube.
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Wednesday, July 30, 2008
The Black Keys Work
This year's Field Day festival is approaching, and as well as another eclectic & interesting line-up we've been assured that we will be able to piss and get pissed this year. Despite the queues I had a great time last year, and with more bars, bogs & volume it should be a gay old time.
I've got a pair of tickets to give away. To win them (and I hope I don't live to regret this), just email me something interesting from youtube. It doesn't have to be music but it mustn't be PR. Mark your email 'watch this then give me some fucking tickets'.
For inspiration i've just watched a pretty interesting documentary about Northern Soul courtesy of Noodles and Broth, but sleepy puppies or suicidal Saudis are fine also.
How about some music then.
The latest excellent compilation from the Strut label focuses on 'Calypsoul' - Caribbean Soul from 1969 - 1979. It's mainly worth checking out for this killer opening track by 'The Revolution of St. Vincent'. I have no sleeve notes, i know nothing of the band. But I know good & this is it... and it sounds twice as sweet when listened to in this unrelenting heat.
THE REVOLUTION OF ST. VINCENT - THE LITTLE YOU SAY
Even more mysterious is this track I was sent the other day. I'm sure i'm not leading you up the garden path with another faux-Bangalter tune, but all i know about this is 'It's a secret track, and i can't tell you who it's by just yet. . It's a secret track by a really well known band... it'll be on the radio (also without a name..) and what not soon, but currently we're keeping it's identity secret..!
The high decending chords seem nicked straight from Glass Candy, but i'm at a bit of a loss as to who it might be. Rumour has it that Franz Ferdinand have a new disco-fied direction, so my shout is that it could be a new track by themselves. In fact i'm starting to become convinced of it. Anyone got any better ideas?
SECRET TRACK
Slightly less mysterious is the news that Riton has a new pseudonym for Modular records - 'Eine Kleine Nacht Musik'. He sounds like he's been listening to Jean Michelle Jarre & Stereolab, and this track (the album opener) is awesome, combining spaced out melodies with pounding krautrock drums. Must investigate further.....
EINE KLEINE NACHT MUSIK - ERTRINKEN
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Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Primitive World
Phew, well it's been a rather hairy week, with my newish Vista PC suddenly deciding to not recognise my external hard drive - containing all my music. I'm rather embarrassed to admit quite how much is on there, but suffice to say it would have been slightly annoying had I lost it all.
Fortunately though, after a bit of messing round with drivers it seems to be back in business. Relief all round.
As a result i've finally been able to fix that Brand Image track that didn't upload properly last week. Yay!
So today i've been mainly listening to a track I was first sent & indeed should have posted up last year. Tahiti Boy is a guy called David who's formed a band with people from Poney Poney, Bitchee Bitchee Ya Ya and sometimes TV on the Radio. They had a single out last year on Ed Banger offshoot Arcade Mode, and this was it.
Based on this single, he seems blessed with a similar gift for pop & melody as Phoenix, and there's something about the way the track gently crescendos towards the end that hooks you in & makes you skip straight back to the beginning again.
TAHITI BOY AND THE PALMTREE FAMILY - SHE WAS MINE
Tahiti Boy are playing their first UK gig next week... which could be interesting. It's clear that So Me wasn't roped in to design the flyer though!
Could there be another band with a worse but also tropical sounding name? Why yes... how about Desmond and the Tutus. Yep that's pretty bad.
This wasn't exactly what I was expecting from a release on Tiger Sushi records, and in fact on first impressions I thought it was quite bad... but like a Black Mamba from their home country, it slithered up on me and sunk it's fangs into my buttocks. I guess this is evidence of the Afrobeat influence that I hear is infecting indie music these days?
DESMOND AND THE TUTUS - KISS YOU ON THE CHEEK
If you're at a loose end on Friday could I heartily recommend a trip to Adventures Close to Home's new home in Shoreditch. I'm djing, and Alex & Will will be buying fancy cocktails for every single person who comes.**
Just a quick hello & a couple of tunes to show i'm still alive!
Though it was out a couple of weeks ago, the Late of the Pier album is great... possibly my favourite of the year so far.
It sounds like this:
I was recently sent an excellent remix of 'Bathroom Gurgle' by Artwork. Artwork were once known as Project New City & I once posted a track of theirs (On Arrival in Narita) from the first I Can Count compilation. This remix drops much of the Bowieisms & glam rock in favour of some uplifting synths & squelchy Digitalisms. The song sounds born this way.
LATE OF THE PIER - BATHROOM GURGLE (ARTWORK REMIX)
Forthcoming on October 6th are some remixes of Liquid Liquid's classic 'Optimo'... by Optimo themselves (naturally), Tim 'DFA' Goldsworthy, Matthew Dear & some guy called DJ Sample. It's the latter that i'm drawn to, with some classic techno chords swirling round the inevitable cowbell & that unmistakable jabbering vocal.
LIQUID LIQUID - OPTIMO (DJ SAMPLE REMIX)
Like the last few of their compilations, the new Kitsune Maison (Volume 6) is a mixed bag. As usual there are gems within though... usually when diverting from the electro house formula.
The opening track by Lo-Fi Fnk reminds me of how good they are, and I really enjoyed the track by Pnau. My favourite though is the closing track by Appaloosa (which was also the name used for some great drum 'n' bass tracks by Global Communication back in the day).
I'd been searching for an mp3 of this since reading about it in the Guardian & listening on myspace, so the CD dropped through the door with perfect timing. Ths song begins with a French chanteuse accompanied by piano... and just when you start to think 'hang on, she can't sing too well can she', a drum beat and a repeated chorus take you away into memory bliss.
APPALOOSA - THE DAY (WE FELL IN LOVE)
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Tuesday, September 09, 2008
I Heart Norway
I'm just back from a FANTASTIC weekend at the Numusic festival in Stavanger, Norway. I was lucky enough to be playing some records, but also got to stay & enjoy the Nuart part of the festival, where top graffiti artists like D*Face, Nick Walker, Herakut, Dolk, Know Hope & Zeus spend some time decorating the venue & city.
The whole festival was so inspiring. DJ Pinch & MC Dread were a particular highlight for me, having never experienced live dubstep in such an intimate environment. I felt it was a bit of an awakening for me.
DJ PINCH - BRIGHTER DAY
Copenhagen grime MC Lucy Love also killed it, with some sharp rhymes over tough minimal 909 beats.
Zombie Zombie were as awesome as ever & put me into a complete joyful trance. If you've not seen this unofficial 'The Thing' inspired video then check it.. it's ace.
Nouvelle Vague & Datarock were predictably great... and it was fantastic to see A Certain Ratio tear through 'Shack Up'.
A CERTAIN RATIO - SHACK UP
Lindstrom was mesmerising, though I think his set was cut short a little, and Pivot were immense. Intricate parts welded to beautiful melodies & crashing noise. Their new album on Warp (O Soundtrack My Heart) is excellent... check the following track & also 'Didn't I Furious' (which I posted a few months ago)/
PIVOT - SWEET MEMORY
Here's a small selection of pictures from NuArt, but check my friend Ian's for much better & more (he was official photographer or something).
All in all it was a pretty wonderful weekend, and if you're looking for a more interesting festival experience next year I can't recommend it enough. The music was fantastic, the girls are beautiful (and very friendly...), and the art is always superb.
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Wednesday, August 27, 2008
Banksy in New Orleans
Some fantastic new Banksy pieces up in the States. Some seem a response to a government clean up guy known as the 'Grey Ghost' who's been indiscriminately covering any graffiti in New Orleans with ugly grey paint. These are great:
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Saturday, August 16, 2008
I Like Candy
Since my last post i've turned 34, watched Batman (bit shit innit), got pissed at 5 art openings, gone to one of the last meetings at Walthamstow dogs, DJd on a porn set and watched a lot of Olympics (Yay, just stayed up to watch Rebecca Adlington win her second Gold... just need now for Chris Hoy & Bradley Wiggins to come back with 3 each!)
All of which means i'm a bit late in running this competition for three signed copies of the new Glimmers CD 'The Glimmers are Gee Gee Fazzi'. To win email me by midnight Tuesday with the names of the two Glimmer Twins.
It contains this amazing sleazy cover of Olivia Newton-John's 'Physical', so is well worth having.
THE GLIMMERS - PHYSICAL
And let us not forget that ON-J was rather hot in her day.
This is to do with a 'Hidden Depths' event that Chromeo are curating next Thursday. The line-up is secret, but looks pretty amazing from what i've seen. You can register for tickets here.
There are quite a few new 12"a coming on DFA, by people like Mock & Toof, Juan MacLean, Yacht and Runaway. The undoubted highlight is this Holy Ghost! remix of Panthers, that's every bit as good as their own 'Hold On'. Shimmering disco sounds drag you into a druggy haze, while the laid back 'on and on and on and on' vocal reminds you that the music keeps on playing all night long.
PANTHERS - GOBLIN CITY (HOLY GHOST! REMIX)
Coming soon on Merok records is 'La Basta' by LA band Rainbow Arabia. As the name suggests, there's an Arabian influence to their sound. A couple of husband & wife punks lost in the desert with nothing but a 4-track for company. Pretty awesome.
RAINBOW ARABIA - OMAR K
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Tuesday, August 05, 2008
Dogs aren't funny
It wasn't entirely sensible asking to be sent youtube clips while my internet connection was suffering one of it's regular 'even worse than usual' phases. A 0.1 MB connection is no fucking use for watching video.
Being the internet, I was basically sent a load of cats. Fantastic!
Dramatic Cat
Boxing Cat
Simon's Cat
Vicious Cat
Savage Cat Attack
Plus some crap stuff, some old stuff, some dodgy records and a LOL
After borrowing one of the national lottery machines for the evening, the name I plucked out of the draw was Craig Porter. Yay for Craig. He now has two tickets for Field Day.
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Competition
I forgot to say that if you want to go to Field Day you have until midnight tonight to entertain me via youtube.
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Wednesday, July 30, 2008
The Black Keys Work
This year's Field Day festival is approaching, and as well as another eclectic & interesting line-up we've been assured that we will be able to piss and get pissed this year. Despite the queues I had a great time last year, and with more bars, bogs & volume it should be a gay old time.
I've got a pair of tickets to give away. To win them (and I hope I don't live to regret this), just email me something interesting from youtube. It doesn't have to be music but it mustn't be PR. Mark your email 'watch this then give me some fucking tickets'.
For inspiration i've just watched a pretty interesting documentary about Northern Soul courtesy of Noodles and Broth, but sleepy puppies or suicidal Saudis are fine also.
How about some music then.
The latest excellent compilation from the Strut label focuses on 'Calypsoul' - Caribbean Soul from 1969 - 1979. It's mainly worth checking out for this killer opening track by 'The Revolution of St. Vincent'. I have no sleeve notes, i know nothing of the band. But I know good & this is it... and it sounds twice as sweet when listened to in this unrelenting heat.
THE REVOLUTION OF ST. VINCENT - THE LITTLE YOU SAY
Even more mysterious is this track I was sent the other day. I'm sure i'm not leading you up the garden path with another faux-Bangalter tune, but all i know about this is 'It's a secret track, and i can't tell you who it's by just yet. . It's a secret track by a really well known band... it'll be on the radio (also without a name..) and what not soon, but currently we're keeping it's identity secret..!
The high decending chords seem nicked straight from Glass Candy, but i'm at a bit of a loss as to who it might be. Rumour has it that Franz Ferdinand have a new disco-fied direction, so my shout is that it could be a new track by themselves. In fact i'm starting to become convinced of it. Anyone got any better ideas?
SECRET TRACK
Slightly less mysterious is the news that Riton has a new pseudonym for Modular records - 'Eine Kleine Nacht Musik'. He sounds like he's been listening to Jean Michelle Jarre & Stereolab, and this track (the album opener) is awesome, combining spaced out melodies with pounding krautrock drums. Must investigate further.....
EINE KLEINE NACHT MUSIK - ERTRINKEN
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Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Primitive World
Phew, well it's been a rather hairy week, with my newish Vista PC suddenly deciding to not recognise my external hard drive - containing all my music. I'm rather embarrassed to admit quite how much is on there, but suffice to say it would have been slightly annoying had I lost it all.
Fortunately though, after a bit of messing round with drivers it seems to be back in business. Relief all round.
As a result i've finally been able to fix that Brand Image track that didn't upload properly last week. Yay!
So today i've been mainly listening to a track I was first sent & indeed should have posted up last year. Tahiti Boy is a guy called David who's formed a band with people from Poney Poney, Bitchee Bitchee Ya Ya and sometimes TV on the Radio. They had a single out last year on Ed Banger offshoot Arcade Mode, and this was it.
Based on this single, he seems blessed with a similar gift for pop & melody as Phoenix, and there's something about the way the track gently crescendos towards the end that hooks you in & makes you skip straight back to the beginning again.
TAHITI BOY AND THE PALMTREE FAMILY - SHE WAS MINE
Tahiti Boy are playing their first UK gig next week... which could be interesting. It's clear that So Me wasn't roped in to design the flyer though!
Could there be another band with a worse but also tropical sounding name? Why yes... how about Desmond and the Tutus. Yep that's pretty bad.
This wasn't exactly what I was expecting from a release on Tiger Sushi records, and in fact on first impressions I thought it was quite bad... but like a Black Mamba from their home country, it slithered up on me and sunk it's fangs into my buttocks. I guess this is evidence of the Afrobeat influence that I hear is infecting indie music these days?
DESMOND AND THE TUTUS - KISS YOU ON THE CHEEK
If you're at a loose end on Friday could I heartily recommend a trip to Adventures Close to Home's new home in Shoreditch. I'm djing, and Alex & Will will be buying fancy cocktails for every single person who comes.**
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An organism's sex is defined by the gametes it produces: males produce male gametes (spermatozoa, or sperm) while females produce female gametes (ova, or egg cells); individual organisms which produce both male and female gametes are termed hermaphroditic. Frequently, physical differences are associated with the different sexes of an organism; these sexual dimorphisms can reflect the different reproductive pressures the sexes experience.
Sex in animals involves the fusion of a sperm and an egg cell.In biology, sex is a process of combining and mixing genetic traits, often resulting in the specialization of organisms into male and female types (or sexes). Sexual reproduction involves combining specialized cells (gametes) to form offspring that inherit traits from both parents. Gametes can be identical in form and function (known as isogametes), but in many cases an asymmetry has evolved such that two sex-specific types of gametes (heterogametes) exist: male gametes are small, motile, and optimized to transport their genetic information over a distance, while female gametes are large, non-motile and contain the nutrients necessary for the early development of the young organism.
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This article is about biological sex. For other uses, such as sexual intercourse and the social concept of gender, see Sex (disambiguation).
An organism's sex is defined by the gametes it produces: males produce male gametes (spermatozoa, or sperm) while females produce female gametes (ova, or egg cells); individual organisms which produce both male and female gametes are termed hermaphroditic. Frequently, physical differences are associated with the different sexes of an organism; these sexual dimorphisms can reflect the different reproductive pressures the sexes experience.
Sex in animals involves the fusion of a sperm and an egg cell.In biology, sex is a process of combining and mixing genetic traits, often resulting in the specialization of organisms into male and female types (or sexes). Sexual reproduction involves combining specialized cells (gametes) to form offspring that inherit traits from both parents. Gametes can be identical in form and function (known as isogametes), but in many cases an asymmetry has evolved such that two sex-specific types of gametes (heterogametes) exist: male gametes are small, motile, and optimized to transport their genetic information over a distance, while female gametes are large, non-motile and contain the nutrients necessary for the early development of the young organism.
How to Make Love - In 5 Easy Steps
Everyone wants to know how to make love the right way and the real art behind it. Love making does not only involve sexual pleasure but also a happier mood and a stronger relationship in the long term. In order to benefit from love making both partners should derive mutual satisfaction from the act which implies both partners should reach ultimate orgasm. You should know how and when to make love in the right way and form. Read on to find out how to make love the right way.
Set the mood- In order to make love the right way proper mood is very important. You simply can not satisfy your partner is he or she is in a negative or a bad mood. This is the major reason why some couples feel love making was absolutely awesome sometimes whereas other times it's just ordinary. Your and your partner's mood has a big role to play in love making. To keep the heavenly magic intact in love making always do it when you feel the situational moods are right.
Romance- Love making is all about romance and emotional attachment towards each other. Romance is extremely important to add that extra spice before you start taking your clothes off. Romance normally leads to an exceptionally better love making and you get more satisfaction each time you make love.
Use words- Words are a very important part of love making and should be used wisely. The pleasure from making love doubles when you tell your partners how much you love need or want him or her. Research has shown that couples which involve more feelings and emotions in love making are known to be happier in the long term.
Take it further- Continue the above mentioned steps and take the next step into foreplay. This is the final step of proper love making which leads to eventual orgasm. Oral stimulation doubles pleasure and you can make love for several hours.
How good are you in bed? - Do you have what it takes to satisfy women in bed? Do you know what every woman wants bed? Ever tried to wonder what's in a woman's mind? What is she thinking about? Do you know that women do not always mean what they say? They might say something and mean the exact opposite. But what do women actually want? Read on to find out some of the most "Shocking Secrets" regarding what women want and expect out of a man in bed click here- What do women want in bed?
Set the mood- In order to make love the right way proper mood is very important. You simply can not satisfy your partner is he or she is in a negative or a bad mood. This is the major reason why some couples feel love making was absolutely awesome sometimes whereas other times it's just ordinary. Your and your partner's mood has a big role to play in love making. To keep the heavenly magic intact in love making always do it when you feel the situational moods are right.
Romance- Love making is all about romance and emotional attachment towards each other. Romance is extremely important to add that extra spice before you start taking your clothes off. Romance normally leads to an exceptionally better love making and you get more satisfaction each time you make love.
Use words- Words are a very important part of love making and should be used wisely. The pleasure from making love doubles when you tell your partners how much you love need or want him or her. Research has shown that couples which involve more feelings and emotions in love making are known to be happier in the long term.
Take it further- Continue the above mentioned steps and take the next step into foreplay. This is the final step of proper love making which leads to eventual orgasm. Oral stimulation doubles pleasure and you can make love for several hours.
How good are you in bed? - Do you have what it takes to satisfy women in bed? Do you know what every woman wants bed? Ever tried to wonder what's in a woman's mind? What is she thinking about? Do you know that women do not always mean what they say? They might say something and mean the exact opposite. But what do women actually want? Read on to find out some of the most "Shocking Secrets" regarding what women want and expect out of a man in bed click here- What do women want in bed?
Sexual Intercourse - How to Make Love Whole night!
Warning. Discretionary Content. This article may contain material that is either inappropriate or offensive to some audiences.
Love making is the most magnificent celestial experience. While making love, we forget about our past and feel absolutely no worries of our future; everything freezes to time and we live in the very moment. But unfortunately for some people; love making do not last longer and they are not able to enjoy every bit of it.
Normally people can stretch love making to an hour long activity, but making love for whole night is always possible. All you need is some simple techniques which are to be followed by both the partners. If you follow step by step procedure and understand what is needed to be done at particular time, you can make your nights enjoyable and memorable too.
Before we start discussing the points, it is very important to understand that 100% participation and complete devotion of the partners, better mutual understanding, desire for passionate love making and readiness to take initiative in the game of love are the prerequisites. There are situations when one partner has to lead and let the other partner keep his/her desires burning, failing to understand this will cost in early ending of your passion packed activity. Also please take care not to eat more at dinner, because it affects your active participation in love making.
Foreplay, knowing the peak point of one’s partner, leading alternatively, use of different sex positions and some more are the key points to be learned about before even thinking about having night long sex.
As I have explained the importance of foreplay (and also provided with some important tips) in my article "Foreplay – Sexual Intercourse Navigator!", it is important to start the sexual activity with a prolonged and sensual foreplay. The only difference in foreplay carried out during normal sexual intercourse and the foreplay intended for a night long sex activity is that this foreplay has to be carried out for longer period and should be divided in some parts. These parts should be performed from time to time. Foreplay is an art of expressing love and is a perfect invitation for a sex activity. Foreplay is important in order to arouse female partner for the game of love.
Knowing your partner’s peak time can help him/her slow down when he/she reaches to the extreme level, people who face problem of early ejaculation can be helped by their partners during intercourse in many ways. In order not to shoot before time, one should follow "Slowing Down" and/or "Packet" techniques. Slowing down when it’s a high sensitive moment pushes the shooting point further, allowing both the partners enjoy intercourse for some more time. Packet technique is used when its hard to slow down, at this point the stroking activity is stopped by the weak partner for some time and extended/advanced foreplay is used to give another partner continuous experience of intercourse whereas the partner having problem of early ejaculation gets some more time to calm down his/her desires at certain level and then again both the partners can resume the activity. Extended/advanced foreplay contains stimulating partners and allowing him/her to continue experiencing intercourse by fingering or blowjob performed by the weak partner. Another technique that can help in increasing shooting time is by pressing weak partner’s semen carrying vein (which is situated just below the scrotum) with the help of a finger by other partner, this surely allows late ejaculation for the weak partner. One advantage of this technique is that if you follow this technique for many days, it improves performance of male partner having early ejaculation problem and he can enjoy longer and stronger strokes after little practice and he can also gain control on his senses which causes in early ejaculation.
Use of different sex positions has its own importance in sexual intercourse activity. There are different sex positions which allow both the partners choose the way they want to enjoy their time. Some positions allow both the partners keep showering love on the other partner for longer time without shooting up early. Both the partners can use different sex positions during one intercourse. Its never possible to enjoy all night sex without both the partners taking lead alternatively, if one partner is leading he/she should help the other partner to keep the desires in control without reaching the end point early; at the same time the leading partner should make it sure that whatever activity is followed it should appease the burning desires of both the partners and should drive them slowly towards the celestial experience allowing them enjoy each moment during the intercourse. There can be more than one complete intercourse during the night long sex activity, but both the partners should never let the passion fade, which can cause decline in interest of the other partner. The combination of foreplay, advanced foreplay, different sex positions make it possible to enjoy all night sex, so both the partners should have proper understanding of these points.
Love making is the most magnificent celestial experience. While making love, we forget about our past and feel absolutely no worries of our future; everything freezes to time and we live in the very moment. But unfortunately for some people; love making do not last longer and they are not able to enjoy every bit of it.
Normally people can stretch love making to an hour long activity, but making love for whole night is always possible. All you need is some simple techniques which are to be followed by both the partners. If you follow step by step procedure and understand what is needed to be done at particular time, you can make your nights enjoyable and memorable too.
Before we start discussing the points, it is very important to understand that 100% participation and complete devotion of the partners, better mutual understanding, desire for passionate love making and readiness to take initiative in the game of love are the prerequisites. There are situations when one partner has to lead and let the other partner keep his/her desires burning, failing to understand this will cost in early ending of your passion packed activity. Also please take care not to eat more at dinner, because it affects your active participation in love making.
Foreplay, knowing the peak point of one’s partner, leading alternatively, use of different sex positions and some more are the key points to be learned about before even thinking about having night long sex.
As I have explained the importance of foreplay (and also provided with some important tips) in my article "Foreplay – Sexual Intercourse Navigator!", it is important to start the sexual activity with a prolonged and sensual foreplay. The only difference in foreplay carried out during normal sexual intercourse and the foreplay intended for a night long sex activity is that this foreplay has to be carried out for longer period and should be divided in some parts. These parts should be performed from time to time. Foreplay is an art of expressing love and is a perfect invitation for a sex activity. Foreplay is important in order to arouse female partner for the game of love.
Knowing your partner’s peak time can help him/her slow down when he/she reaches to the extreme level, people who face problem of early ejaculation can be helped by their partners during intercourse in many ways. In order not to shoot before time, one should follow "Slowing Down" and/or "Packet" techniques. Slowing down when it’s a high sensitive moment pushes the shooting point further, allowing both the partners enjoy intercourse for some more time. Packet technique is used when its hard to slow down, at this point the stroking activity is stopped by the weak partner for some time and extended/advanced foreplay is used to give another partner continuous experience of intercourse whereas the partner having problem of early ejaculation gets some more time to calm down his/her desires at certain level and then again both the partners can resume the activity. Extended/advanced foreplay contains stimulating partners and allowing him/her to continue experiencing intercourse by fingering or blowjob performed by the weak partner. Another technique that can help in increasing shooting time is by pressing weak partner’s semen carrying vein (which is situated just below the scrotum) with the help of a finger by other partner, this surely allows late ejaculation for the weak partner. One advantage of this technique is that if you follow this technique for many days, it improves performance of male partner having early ejaculation problem and he can enjoy longer and stronger strokes after little practice and he can also gain control on his senses which causes in early ejaculation.
Use of different sex positions has its own importance in sexual intercourse activity. There are different sex positions which allow both the partners choose the way they want to enjoy their time. Some positions allow both the partners keep showering love on the other partner for longer time without shooting up early. Both the partners can use different sex positions during one intercourse. Its never possible to enjoy all night sex without both the partners taking lead alternatively, if one partner is leading he/she should help the other partner to keep the desires in control without reaching the end point early; at the same time the leading partner should make it sure that whatever activity is followed it should appease the burning desires of both the partners and should drive them slowly towards the celestial experience allowing them enjoy each moment during the intercourse. There can be more than one complete intercourse during the night long sex activity, but both the partners should never let the passion fade, which can cause decline in interest of the other partner. The combination of foreplay, advanced foreplay, different sex positions make it possible to enjoy all night sex, so both the partners should have proper understanding of these points.
2008年10月3日星期五
26岁女人自述性爱经历
我是女人，一个正常而感性的26女人。花季少女到待嫁的小女人，有太多回忆关于情爱的、身体的、连通记忆都想写下来。
一场挥之不去的性爱经历！
大学那年和第一个男朋友发生性关系以后，对待神秘而快感的性才有所体会和享受。初尝性爱是羞涩而被动的。那时候羞涩不懂得调情与享受，但是喜欢在他的怀抱温存的拥抱和享受。 日子久了，也就认定这就是夫妻生活的魅力所在：平淡真实而又温情。分手后，时常想念的不是那份交融的激情，反而是那份羞涩的心境。
B男人是我的异地恋人，相识之初仅是被他阳光男孩般的微笑吸引，高大挺拔的身材，在他的肩膀下总是感觉自己那么娇小。或许是因为异地恋情的原因，我们对彼此都是格外珍惜。我们都是初恋失败后彼此的第二次，所以少了那分羞涩。一个月我们只能见面一次，或因为出差可以多一次见面的机会，每次见面按小时计算是48小时，那份心动从下车那刻起就膨胀得不能自持，吃饭、欢笑、拥抱都是奢侈的记忆。最让人不能忘怀的是非典时期的思念，不顾危险的租车跑去最危险的城市中央，他开车、我租车碰头后只是会心的拥抱、甜蜜微笑。分开后，心情失落因为又要分离……异地恋情的寿命有限，因为现实的很多因素是我主动提出了分手，那份心痛和了无牵挂的失落只有自己最清楚。>>>
也许是习惯了恋爱和性爱，作为成熟的女人，我开始渴望在一次的爱情和滋润，但事与愿违，浮躁漂泊的年代，爱情的奢侈让彼此接近的每一个人都在可以保持距离，都在为自己寻找最佳的生存方式，于是方便面市的快餐爱情应运而生。跟直接将是感情、寄托、发泄、性出口。
遇到C是在朋友聚会，深情高歌阿杜的《撕夜》后让我开始注意到这个有些冷漠的高大消瘦的男人。凭女人的直觉他也在注视我。感情的寂寞使我轻率的答应与他一起夜驾车出游，但是路上我的潜意识告诫自己还是要自爱——原因是他有女朋友，即将步入婚姻的男人，一个曾堕胎为他两次的陌生女人，我最终在没有到达目的时下了车。他的女友事后曾哭诉的打电话给我，我也只是淡漠的建议她步入婚姻要慎重。
冷漠了，冷淡冷静了。一切的美好都让我越发理性和成长的岁月慢慢削减。我这个自称有着高素质的女人，还是逃离不开俗套的网络爱情。D一个幽默风趣、涵养、学识丰富的高大男人又一次出现在我的生活，但是感觉除了性，彼此心中的距离仍然很远。
我真得很像一支命犯桃花，乐此不必的享受桃花源里的快乐！可是我的情感仍然很寂寞。
上帝还是恩宠我，给我目前拥有的男人E，我们没有性交过，亲吻都很少。也恐惧肉体交合后的失落。
我心里有负担，需要时间去将回忆抹去，我真心想和E组建家庭，他是一个让人安稳、可靠他似的男人。努力的工作、简单的交际，以及最重要是爱我的一份心，没问过在这之前他有几个女人，不了解他的身体如何？我用及其理性的态度考虑我们的结合，明知道这是自欺欺人，但我要回归一个家庭，嫁给爱我呵护我的一个男人，有享受我们创造的生活。>>>
这样吧，一个简单女子的平凡生活，在一片风雨历程后相对从容地进行。写出来，与有所经历和正在经历的朋友分享。不论会有何反应，但传统的女人还是美丽的。
手淫时高潮为何更强烈？
有些人在手淫时的高潮快感会比性交时强烈，其原因大概有下列这几方面：
首先是手淫时，自己懂得哪些部位敏感，该刺激那些部位，该施加多大的压力。因此，手淫时阴茎所获得的刺激远比性交时阴茎所得到的刺激强。
其次，手淫时是独自一人，不受配偶的影响，在性幻想上更为自由和充分。
最后是性交时，有些人可能存在一些操作压力，如怕阴茎勃起不坚，持续时间不够长，不能满足妻子的要求等等。这些都不利性兴奋的发展，而手淫时则无这些顾虑存在，因而使有些人在手淫时高潮快感显得更强烈。
男人的一夜性与女人的一夜情
同样一个晚上、同在一张床上，这个夜晚男人称为“一夜性”，女人说是“一夜情”。女人抱着期待，一种对浪漫情怀的渴求，以及亲密伴侣的寻觅，所以即使初识不到一小时，跟着感觉走的女人也就难以抗拒而冒险尝试了。
周末深夜，独自在Pub等朋友，索性先到吧台点了一杯Long Island，等待的时候 随意环顾四周，突然瞥见角落一个俊挺的脸庞，这男子也正盯着我看，脸上挂着友善而魅惑的微笑，我本能的以笑回应，赶紧移开视线，却清楚听见自己加快的心跳声。
几分钟后，服务生送上饮料，并比了手势告知那位刚刚与你四目相交的男子已经付了酒钱，抬头望去，他熟练地隔空向我举杯示意，又送上一个足以让冰霜瞬间溶化的灿烂笑容。我当然知道他的意图何在，也暗自窃喜自己仍有迷人魅力。
而且奇怪的是，并不像以往会感到排斥与防卫，反而感到欣喜，我躲避他的眼神，却开始想象他说话的语调、想象他亲抚我的眉心和嘴角、想象依靠在他裸露胸膛的感觉、想象着......停不住脑中闪跃而出的画面。突然，一个身影靠近，是他！他以看似认真的双眼揪着我，温柔低缓地问：“一个人吗？”
这时你会怎么做？请诚实回答！
这是许多男女发生一夜情的标准开场之一，如同所有事件的发生，一夜情也得符合“天时、地利、人和”的条件。时间通常在夜晚，人变的比较感性而且脆弱；地点通常是容易让人松懈的场所，音乐、酒、烟雾弥漫、灯光昏暗是必备的催情道具和场景；再加上两个看对眼而且不多思虑的男女，就够了。姑且不论一夜情的安全性和道德性，这样的邂逅方式满足了许多女性对浪漫的期待。何况生活已经太平淡无味，好不容易有电影情节在真实生活中上演，怎么可以轻易错过饰演女主角的大好机会呢？！
你有过一夜情吗？
如果有，你现在是怀念多还是懊恼多？如果没有，你是否曾经渴望？这个问题不需要问大部分以下半身思考的男人，数据显示只要有机会又不会惹上麻烦，90％以上的男人对于一夜情总是来者不拒、乐此不疲，而且对于男人而言，这游戏无非是为了性，所以应该改称“一夜性”比较符合实情。但是同一档事对于女人的意义可就不同，女人抱着期待，一种对浪漫情怀的渴求，以及亲密伴侣的寻觅，所以即使初识不到一小时，跟着感觉走的女人也就难以抗拒而冒险尝试了。
游戏之后，危险才要开始。
这城市每天上映无数一夜情的戏码，也要有无数女主角才得以开演。只想知道当戏码落幕，温热的体温逐渐冷却，两个赤裸相见的陌生人各自着装挥别后，还能留下些什么？美丽的回忆，少有可能；败'性'而归，非常可能；更加空虚，太有可能；遇见披着羊皮的变态，可怕的可能；精子和卵子不慎相遇在子宫，不幸的可能；性病缠身、性命危急，不是不可能！算一算，这游戏还真是高风险啊！
嘿，你的选择是什么？
女人一般做爱多久才能感到满足
常有困惑的男人打电话给心理医生：女人到底需要多长时间才能达到性高潮?自己总是七八分钟便一泄千里，如何是好?
女人对时间的要求不可能有一个统一标准，同一个女人也不会总在同样的时间里达到高潮。高潮体验是个挑剔的“孩子”，爱抚是否充分，兴奋值是否达到极限，都决定着它到来的早晚。
一个关心女人感觉的男人应该做的，首先是在女人高潮到来之前“坚守阵地”。男人会说：说起来容易，到时候却难以自持。还是那句话，关键在于爱心。
其实每一个男人都有控制时间的能力，问题是他想不想控制，或者正当那份美妙体验已近在眼前的时候，能否理智地做到“退后一步”。这也取决于你是否真的关心妻子的感受。近来文章大谈“忍而不射”的害处，其实，对于一个善于调控的男人来讲，他在做的并不是忍而不射，而是如何延缓那即将“崩溃”时刻的到来。弓没有拉满，何谈忍而不射呢?男人应该学会在过程中体验快乐，而不是总把目标集中在射精那一刻。学会于过程中体验快乐的男人会发现，过程中的快乐会远远胜于射精的快乐。
真正领悟了性交快乐的女人，其种种美妙的表现最终会出乎男人的意料，使他们获得远远高于只顾自己忙碌时的快乐。让女人先达到高潮是一个聪明男人在性交开始时便定下的目标，他明白，高潮体验过后的女人，往往会成倍地回报他。
让女人先快乐，注定是男人最快乐的方式。
做爱时放何种类型音乐最好
人们知道许多影响性爱的因素，一杯醇香的红酒，抑或昏黄的灯光……但很多人可能没想到，在做爱之前享受音乐，同样可以令人兴奋，并享受到非同寻常的美好感受。在中非西部的原著民们，早已使用他们特有的鼓与木琴伴奏，传唱性生活与情欲幻想，借此在性生活前提升兴奋状态。
事实上，听觉是享受完美性爱不可分割的一部分，而由于音乐是以节奏、旋律、歌词的完美结合形式出现的，因此，音乐所表达的情感，作用于听觉，常能更好地传递爱的信号。美国性心理专家朱莉娅·海曼发现，一定的音乐刺激会带来性的诱惑和兴奋，特别是那种情调绵绵的柔和音乐，音乐中的节奏和韵律本身在其表现形式上就含有一种本能的性要素，不但可以刺激大脑神经与肌肉系统的活动，还会提高人类的性兴奋的强度，极快地唤起大多数男女的性欲。
不过，不同的人对音乐的反应不同，据美国性心理学家研究发现，音乐对女性的性感挑动作用比男性强，有时甚至可以使女性产生意识不到的性唤起。随着人的音乐素质越高，音乐对性欲所起的作用就越大。而且，当心境愉悦时，音乐对性爱所起到的作用会比平时更大，带来了人类最根本的渴望和高峰。
前戏15分钟让她饥渴难耐
专家们这样告诫我们：女人所需前戏的时间，至少要15分钟。嗯，这大概是足以让你犯规很多次的一局足球赛的时间。15分钟对许多事来说，都嫌太长，对前戏这件事尤是。如何好好运用这漫长的15分钟，使你成为人见人爱的情场圣手？
【起手式：从手开始】
1. 轻轻地握住她的手，亲吻她的手指背。一位熟识的指甲彩绘大师偷偷告诉我，其实手指是最被女性忽略的性感带。
2. 将她的手翻过来，手心朝上。你呢，嘴巴紧闭，用你的嘴唇轻柔地压印在她手掌肉厚最柔软处。慢慢地往她手腕方向压按移动，直到你的嘴唇感觉到他手腕上的脉搏跳动为止。
这阶段所需时间：1分钟
【第二步 最轻最轻的吻】
1. 从她的下嘴唇开始。一样地，你双唇轻阖，将她的下嘴唇轻轻含在你的双唇间。要轻柔到让她几乎没有感觉你的存在。
2. 同样的方法，用你的嘴唇依序对她的上嘴唇、颈间、耳垂、眼皮进行轻触。记得，你的眼睛要张开，嘴唇阖起，不要猴急地把舌头伸出东舔西舔。
3. 当你如此轻柔地亲她时，手不要闲着 – 以指尖轻轻抚摸她的手膀、肩背。
这阶段所需时间：3分钟
【第三步 重重地吻】
这阶段你可以用力地亲吻了。但是等等，兄弟，收回你的舌头。一般最被女人嫌恶的，就是你的舌头太过投入了。只让你的舌头探出1/3，用你的舌尖和她的舌尖轻触、玩捉迷藏，或是轻舔她的嘴唇内侧，她牙齿的边缘……会有让你意想不到的效果。
这阶段所需时间：2分钟
亲吻可蜻蜓点水地落在鼻尖、脸颊、睫毛、额头、头顶等部位。这些都算是普通级，带有戏谑、愉快、轻松、问好、温暖、安慰、呵护、怜爱等用意，个中滋味尽在不言中……性技巧：吻在何处最“销魂”
【第四步 吻遍全身】
好了，现在你更可以放纵你的唇舌，为所欲为了。别的男人的标准亲吻过程一定都是这样：嘴唇、胸部、肚脐眼、然后更下面 ….。这样完全无法挑起女人的情欲，因为她们早就知道男人一成不变的这一套。我们要出点奇招：
1. 集中火力攻击隐密的部位：大腿内侧、膝盖窝、耳垂后方、胸部上侧(不是乳头喔)。记得，不是一路吻过去，而是从这个部位跳到另一个部位。
2. 力道放轻、一边吸吮一边亲吻，偶尔用你的舌尖出点力压按。
3. 亲完一个部位，在该部位轻轻地吹一口气。她会觉得凉凉的，痒痒的，怪舒服的。
【手要工作】
1. 切记，不要猴急地去揉她的胸部。如果她的乳头还没有兴奋地“竖然起敬”，别用力压她或是用手指头揉捏。相反的，用你的手掌肉多柔软处，覆盖她整个乳房，作圆形按摩。如果她越来越兴奋，可以稍稍加重力道。
2. 如果她的乳头已经勃起，将乳头轻轻夹在你的两根手指之间，作前后缓慢地摩擦。要轻一点，不要用力夹挤。
这阶段所需时间：2分钟
【南向运动】
1. 当你已经锁定她秘密花园时，与其直接刺激她的**，还不如多花一点时间用一或二根手指来善待她的阴唇。缓慢地、有耐性地揉弄她两片阴唇，间接刺激她的性欲。
2. 接下来，用你的拇指和食指拨开阴唇，轻轻抚触她的阴蒂以及阴唇内侧。不要直接刺激阴蒂，除非她娇喘连连，哀求你这么做。
这阶段所需时间：3分钟
【最后一步：观察并确认她已经大有性趣】
* 乳头硬挺
* 呼吸急促、沉重
* 阴蒂突起
如果上述反应都很明显，嘿嘿，就来个法国式亲吻，慢慢地进入她的体内。停个几秒钟，然后开始你最拿手的抽送，让她欲先欲死。
前戏大功告成！
有备无患，做好做爱前的准备
根据统计：每年约有一万例做爱中的伤痛来自于裤子拉链夹伤，而头碰伤、腿抽筋等意外更是不胜枚举。败了性趣是小事，可如果这些意外处理不好还可能出现大问题。因此，在准备两情缠绵之前，别忘记“有备无患”！(Sexjk.co m)
夹痛伤
在被裤子拉链夹伤的意外情况中，阴茎、乳头和阴毛等部位是最容易受伤的部位。
准备：蜡烛、橄榄油。适当地在拉链上涂抹些烛蜡或橄榄油可以起到润滑作用。
颈扭伤
虽然这种损伤并不常见，但却是性爱损伤中比较严重的一种。往往因为在性爱过程中，头部一直保持一个姿势，使颈部肌肉僵硬或是牵拉疼痛，事后疼痛难忍。
准备：冰袋、毛巾。发生这样的扭伤，刚感到颈部不适时应马上局部冷敷，以减轻疼痛和水肿；用一条毛巾围在脖子周围，并将两端系紧（以不影响呼吸为限），来支撑头部，减轻肌肉的负担。
压迫伤
抱得太紧会对头部尤其是颈部造成压迫性伤害，头颈是颈动脉和气管穿过的狭窄部位，若是激情时压迫太紧，很可能呼吸急促。
准备：学会人工呼吸。若对方出现呼吸急促，双脸泛红，短时间的不省人事，先别惊慌，将其扶起置于通风处，让其深呼吸或口对口人工呼吸，一会儿就好。
耳环伤
激情中，女性所佩戴的耳环往往会刺痛或扎伤耳朵，但最要命的是耳环撕裂耳朵，然后耳垂出血不止。
准备：纱布。赶紧用卫生棉或软纱布压按出血处，一般一两分钟就会好。如果还是出血，赶紧去医院。
腿筋伤
腿筋伤发生的原因可能与性爱时动作过于剧烈及肌肉过度拉伸有关。身体缺水、疲劳甚至房间的温度过高均可能成为诱发因素。
准备：适当的按摩。可自己或由伴侣帮助按摩“足三里”等穴位，以促进局部血液循环，松弛肌肉。
脚筋伤
脚筋伤就是脚部抽筋，多半是因为脚习惯了自己的位置，而一旦变换了姿势，时间稍长便不适应了。
准备：补钙品。发生这种情况时，只需将脚趾往上弯，与肌肉收缩方向相反就可以缓解。也可以边继续动作，边腾出手来拉脚趾以缓解伤痛。如果经常脚抽筋，有缺钙的嫌疑。去医院查查你的血钙水平是否正常，平时每天一片钙片或者补充足够的含钙食物，对身体大有裨益。
适合忙碌的你的性爱暗示
“你想做爱吗?”这样的直白或许不是你的风格,也许你更喜欢“此处无声胜有声”的境界。没问题,只要他能理解你的小小暗示,你们照样能够“风生水起”。但如果你露出的自以为很“暧昧”的微笑在他看来只是脸部肌肉的神经性抽动,那么就来试试下面这些“百发百中”却不需要语言表达的传递爱的方式,告诉他你想和他享受性爱,今晚或者就是现在。
没有时间做爱?
尝试下面这12种或温馨或热辣的暗示方式,它们特别适合忙碌的你——
当你有60秒?
● 计划一个“性约会”:早晨上班前给他在冰箱上留下一张纸条,上面写着:“我们12个小时以后在卧室见,不见不散!”
● 空闲时间传情:上班的空闲时间,给他的私人邮箱发一张带有暗示性的图片,在“主题”栏里标注“只限养眼!”
● 直奔主题:把他的手放在你的臀部,然后慢慢向上滑,越慢越好,他很快就会等不及了。
当你有5分钟?
● 用你的吻叫醒他:如果吻他的脸不能唤醒他的话,为什么不试试亲吻别的部位,特别是那些敏感部位!这时即使他醒了也不要停下,继续你的亲吻。
● 身体“地图”:用眼线笔在你身体上的一些敏感部位,比如胸部、唇部、腹部等处写下“抚摸”、“轻吻”等词,并用箭头告诉他该如何一步步开启你的“秘密花园”。他会被这样有趣的方式所吸引,而你也能得到你想要的感觉。
● 钥匙游戏:向他借车钥匙一用,但是不要让他直接把钥匙交给你,而是你自己亲自动手搜身,当然,钥匙不一定在他身上,但聪明如他怎么会点破呢?或许他希望你连内衣都搜一搜呢!
● 服装“专家”:当他脱衣准备就寝时,你便开始“挑刺”,数落他的内衣实在是保守了,不如穿上你买的内衣裤,而且要亲自帮他换上——不要以为只有女人穿上性感的睡衣才有诱惑力哦!
当你有15分钟时?
● 反向“脱衣舞”:当他还在赖床时,你放上一盘CD,然后开始慢慢地穿衣服。记住,一定要非常慢,慢到他足以看清楚你的每一个动作细节。你弯下腰穿上短裙,挺起胸穿上内衣,轻轻地搭上胸衣的钩子,这一切都被他尽收眼底,而他心里想的一定是如何把它们一件件地脱下来。
● 帮他披浴巾:在他出浴时,体贴地为他披上浴巾,并帮他从头到脚地擦干水珠,他的身体即使隔着浴巾也能感受到你双手的热度。
● 巧克力引路:从客厅到卧室的路上摆上几块代表爱情的心形巧克力,一直摆到躺在床上的你的前胸,而他想品尝的绝不仅仅是巧克力。
当你有1个小时?
● 闹钟策略:把闹钟向前调一个小时,等他听到闹铃醒来并且洗漱完毕后,你躺在床上微笑着问他:“亲爱的,时间还早,我们该做点儿什么呢?”
● 书的功效:翻开一本有美妙性爱描写的书,在那一页上夹一张书签,然后把书放到他的枕头上。等他看到了那段文字之后,他就明白你想要什么了,如果怕他把书随手丢在一边,别忘记在书皮上贴一张纸条:“我的秘密藏在书里。”
洞房夜初次性爱实际对策
首次性生活对任何人来说仍然是很重要的。虽然性生活与性激素有关，即我们中的很多人，特别是处于青春期的人会在性激素的驱使下发生性行为，但是我们中的大多数人之所以有性行为是因为感情方面的意义。
第一次性生活通常被视为成熟的标志、从女孩向女人过渡的步骤、生命中的里程碑。
它可以标志你在同龄人中的地位，这也可能是你报复父母的一种方式，或者是对忠实伴侣的一种奖励。而实际上，我们仍然认为失去童贞是密切与伴侣关系的方法。它是爱情达到最高境界的标志。
很多女性说，因为失贞而精神上感到失望；性生活比爱恋更迫切；她们没有成年女性的感觉，却有犯罪感。但是，大多数女性能够继续拥有愉快两性关系——建立美满性生活的关键是彼此信任的伴侣达成共识。
[实际对策]
确保你的伴侣了解你面对第一次性生活的心情；如果可能事先与他谈一下你的顾虑。
为自己做好恰当的安排，包括私下的场所和充裕的时间。
避孕是确保你第一次性生活不怀孕的秘密。
如果从未用过卫生棉条，你的阴道将较紧。可事前先插入一只手指，然后是第二只、第三只，并向下压，以扩展阴道开口。
选择一个让他容易插入的体位。分开腿，如果可能在臀下放一个枕头。
可在他的阴茎上涂唾液或者KY胶。
握住他的阴茎，摆正位置并让它插入；这将有助于你感到掌握主动并控制节奏。
进入时，稍微向下轻推他，以免拉紧你的阴道肌肉。
第一次达不到高潮——这只是一次练习。
[处女膜]
处女膜是阴道入口处的一种皮肤褶皱，只见于人类和马，看起来没有真正的生物学意义。如果女性出生时处女膜闭锁，初潮时需要切开处女膜以让经血流出。
你可能出生时处女膜就不完整，或后天运动时处女膜裂伤。如果以前未破，第一次性生活时处女膜将裂伤或被拉伸。如果裂伤，会出现阴道流血，但是有些人不会出现。如果你没有流血，不允许他人指责你不是处女。处女是指没有经历过插入这样的性生活，而不是指有未破的处女膜。
初次性爱就让她有高潮
处女的第一次性爱，伴随着处女膜的破裂和阴道的阵痛，无论在生理上和心理上都会有些影响。所以对男性来说，这是对您是否是一个好丈夫、一个好男友的考验。在心理上，您要给她足够的抚慰。要爱她，安慰她。告诉她要想成为真正的女人，这是必不可少的步骤。如果她说不，您千万不要勉强。更不能干强迫她的蠢事。这不但伤害了她，而且您也从中得不到快乐，只是发泄 。
我该如何拥有“美好”的性行为？
以下所列的并不是一组规则。要对性制定规则是不可能的——该注意的是你怎么做会让你觉得舒服愉快。而“觉得美好”应当要持续到性结束后——你不该在事后对让她怀孕或是得了疾病而紧张，所以事先做好避孕及安全的性是必要的。
我们什么时候该发生性行为？
你们什么时候发生性行为并不重要。重要的是你和你的伴侣是在相当舒适的状况下让它发生。有的人喜欢在破晓时分做爱，有的人喜欢在下午，有的人喜欢在深沈的夜里。比次数更重要的是时间。当你们第一次发生关系时给彼此多点的时间。周末是理想的，但是包括睡眠时间，至少要有一整天的时间。
在我们发生关系前是不是该吃或喝些东西？
不要吃得太饱，那只会让你们想睡。吃少量的食物，不要喝太多酒精类饮料。一点酒精会帮助你们放松，但是它也会让男方的勃起略为困难，但是无论如何你们将花更多的时间在床上而不是浴室，是吧？
我们应该在哪里发生关系？
在哪里发生关系或许是一个比较重要点的问题。要找到一个你们可以有四十八小时以上隐私时间的地方，对计划着想要奉献出童贞的年龄的人来说不是件容易的事。不过那是值得的。汽车已经不再大到可以在里面做爱，而室外又不够隐私，有太多的虫子、砂子和不要的树枝木材等。
一张舒适的床仍然是做爱的最佳选择。最好你能有个自己的房间，舒适、温暖、宽敞，还有间浴室——一起淋裕如果你打算发生关系，那么在这之前你们或许已经彼此抚摸过对方了。花时间慢慢地熟悉彼此的身体。做爱就是这么回事
我们应该准备什么？
准备些能让你们觉得舒适的东西。节育用品，保险套，或者你最喜欢的抱枕或浴袍。
我一开始该做什么？
你不能期望他知道怎么做会让你觉得舒服。你必须告诉他或做给他看，这意味着你要采取些许的主动，带着他的手到能让你觉得舒服的位置。慢慢来。如果这是他的第一次，他或许会对你所将要做的事感到紧张，而且或许他的阴茎一开始会没有反应。耐心、温柔和体谅是是它重获生机的方法，或许这对你来说不容易做到，但这就是为什么我们告诉你要给自己多点的时间。
会痛吗？
或许你已经听过许多关於失去童贞时会有多痛的可怕故事。对一些女性来说，是会痛，但是如果经由正确的接触和正确的伴侣，你可以毫无痛苦的将阴茎接纳入你体内。让他慢慢来，使用润滑油，慢慢的将他的手指压入你体内，慢慢地使你舒张开来。告诉他什么时候觉得舒服和什么时候觉得不舒服。
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我该采取什么姿势？
许多女性在第一次做爱时喜欢在上位以掌握动作的控制权。有的则喜欢在下位而将控制权交给他的爱人。找个对你来说最好的姿势。只是要记住告诉他慢慢来，不要急，而如果你觉得需要，不妨使用如KYJelly等的润滑剂。
如果我无法勃起该怎么办？
这听来有点好笑，但是你那已经正常运作了好几年的阴茎却可能在你第一次能有真正的性行为时给你致命的一击。那是正常的——因为你太紧张了。来个深呼吸。用你的手、你的唇和你的舌头做些其他的事。试着把你的焦虑不安忘掉，你的阴茎会有回应的。这只是暂时性的问题。
如果我是处男，我该告诉她吗？
很多男性认为因为他们是男人，他们必须掌握性行为的主导权，而不在乎谁有较丰富的经验。如果你是处男而她不是处女，那么告诉她，如果她愿意的话让她主导。学习获取经验同时也是爱的表现。不要怕坦承事实。很多的女性宁愿你是无经验的摸索而不是愚蠢的乱来，而且她们会很乐意为你指引通往那个世界的道路。
我们会同时达到高潮吗？
彼此都不要担心是否同时达到了高潮。有些女人在做爱过程中得不到高潮，或者即使你的女友能获得高潮，这都没办法保证你们能同时达到高潮。好好享受，并相信她告诉你的她的感受。
我太快达到高潮怎么办？
如果你真的比你所希望还要早很多达到高潮，慢慢来，休息一下，然后再尝试一次。第二次你应该会比较放松而且准备好慢慢来——你的阴茎也一样。
我的尺寸够大吗？还是太大？形状正常吗？
另一个常见的问题是尺寸的问题。平均来说阴茎的长度在勃起时大约是51／2英寸，那远超过撞击阴道主要神经区时，包括传说中的Ｇ点，所需要的长度。阴道可以扩张以适应较大的阴茎，也可以收缩以配合较小使寸的阴茎。尺寸大小跟你当个好情人的能力是没有关系的。
另一个常见的问题是关于形状。一些男性会担心是因为他们的阴茎有点向下弯，或者是偏左等等，而且因为他们没有在色情电影中看到和他们一样的男性就假设自己是不正常的。其他人会担心如果下弯会使做爱变得困难和痛苦，因为阴道和他们的阴茎形状并不一样。
记着做爱可以有许多不同的姿势。阴茎和阴道可以用不同的方式相互契合，而每个新姿势都可能带给你和你的伴侣新的快感。有的人相信下弯的阴茎使口交变得容易许多。
我会是个好情人吗？
好情人不是自然发生的。适当的伴侣、适当的时间、适当的关切和练习，你就具备了当个好情人的条件。
处女该怎么面对第一次性爱
处女的第一次性爱，伴随着处女膜的破裂和阴道的阵痛，无论在生理上和心理上都是刻骨铭心的。所以对男性来说，这是对您是否是一个好丈夫、一个好男友的考验。在心理上,您要给她足够的抚慰。要爱她，安慰她。告诉她要想成为真正的女人，这是必不可少的步骤。如果她说不，您千万不要勉强。更不能干强奸她的蠢事。这不但伤害了她，而且您也从中得不到快乐，只有发泄。
那么当她羞答答同意后，您们采用什么做爱姿势呢？其实没有定法。但从爱护女性的角度考虑(因为刺破处女膜的疼痛是难免的)建议采用以下方法:女性仰面平躺在床沿上，高举双腿。男性正面站在床下女性两腿之间。这种做爱方式有以下优点：阴茎可以用最轻微的力量刺破处女膜。
第一次就到此为止，不要再做猛烈的抽插。女孩只会有疼痛。等下次吧。关于这点您可以看看马尔萨斯。加西亚《霍乱时期的爱情》，里面的男主人公在新婚之夜，为了消除妻子对房事的恐惧，特意让妻子欣赏了自己的阴茎一夜，而没有行房。
很有经验的情人平时做爱也可采用这种方式。这个方式还有个优点：男性比较容易用力。 这种姿势还可做适当的变化，例如：将女性的双腿搭在男性的肩膀上；或男性用胳膊夹住女性的双腿；这样阴茎对阴道的刺激部位有些变化，所以感受也有所不同。
另外特别强调的是这种方式男性可以很清楚地看见自己的阴茎进出阴道，那感觉真是美妙无比。为了让女性也能感受到这种快乐，可以让她手持一面镜子放在身体侧面观看，非常有助于女性达到高潮。
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女人用欲火推动男人直达高潮
说到做爱，要做一个体贴女人的男人并不是容易的事。如果在做爱时对女人进行爱抚，有助于点燃女人的欲火，而女人的快感反应更能刺激男人攀登上性刺激的最巅峰。-sex jk.com
男人的性感带最主要集中在阴茎，但女人可不然，因为女人的性感带遍布全身，可说是身体全区域的扩散型。女人渴望男人亲近她的每一寸肌肤，不单是阴部及乳房的重点刺激而已。所以在爱抚女人时，不能急于“攻城略池”。
男人可以先轻抚女人的耳际，然后伸出舌头轻舔、吹气，再加以亲吻、吸吮整耳朵，甚至可以将舌头深入女人的耳洞内，此举绝对会令女人颤抖。还可以抚摸嘴唇，除了亲吻之外，用舌头舔舐、用指尖轻轻抚摸，或是将手指头深入女人口中，都能令女人心动。
需要注意的是，女人在后颈部位周围的性感带特别敏锐，男人可以亲吻、舔、或是以鼻子轻抚摩擦，或是稍微轻轻啃咬她的肩膀。同样，用舔、吻的方式，或是将鼻子朝腋下位置摩擦，都能唤起女人的快感。
女人的乳房其实并不那么敏感，挑逗重点还是在乳头这个最具性感代表性的激情引爆点。你可以用拇指及食指的指尖轻捏乳头;或是用单指的指尖爱抚它;或用手指、手掌轻按画圆;当然，吸吮的刺激是最强烈的，但一切的动作都须以温柔为最高指导原则。
在抚摸阴蒂时，男人往往采用对自己的阴茎手淫之相同要领。然而，这不但不能给女人欢乐，反而给她痛苦。男人不妨回想一下，自己包皮时的阴茎。包皮的阴茎被皮包着，对一点点的刺激都很敏感，强烈的刺激只会带来疼痛。女性的阴蒂就像婴儿的阴茎，因此抚摸阴一定要细致且微妙才行。
具体的指技技巧，是用无名指进行。为什么用无名指?因为指头之中，以无名指最不容易使力。然后，用这根无名指似有若无地贴着阴蒂，左右地刺激……女性为何喜欢被触摸私处，因为女性自慰抚摸阴蒂时，八成以上都是左右地摩擦而非上下。由于阴蒂的包皮是从上往下包住阴蒂的，所以上下的刺激不容易感觉到。
还有一点必须注意的是，尽可能不要用指尖，而用指腹接触。当然，这是不可避免被指甲抓伤。在进行所有的指技之前，一定要剪短指甲，并且修平指甲，以免弄痛女性细致的皮肤。阴蒂的粘膜比普通皮肤柔软、更容易受伤，这层注意确有必要。
亲吻整个臀部、耻丘肌肤，也会令女人感觉很舒服，如果你愿意，更可以亲吻爱抚其股沟、肛门部位。在爱抚肛门时，你不需要直接用指头摸肛门，只要用指尖轻轻地摸肛门及会阴部的周边就够了。不过，肛门周围是粘膜质的敏感部分，太粗糙的指尖刺激，反而弄痛它。这时候不妨在指尖沾些唾液，好的方法是利用女性的爱液。
最后需要指出的是，在运用各种不同动作的同时，你应该注意女人的反应，以便找出最适合她当时心情的抚慰方式，然后多用这种方式让她兴奋;抚玩这个动作，再变化一下，然后再回到这个动作，因为，再令人喜欢的动作，如果一再地重复，还是会变得无聊乏味。但是，一旦她感到很兴奋，就可以持续这个动作，这会让她达到更高的兴奋程度。
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当一个女人找到一个具有高超口交技巧的男人，一定会觉得象找到了所罗门宝藏一样乐不可支，她不会轻易放弃那个男人。她知道这是打着灯笼也找不到的。她不愿透露给自己的女友否则好容易觅到的秘密将成为朋友圈里的大热门人物。所以别忘了，大多数男人都会性交，且有相当一部分干得不错，但那些口技出色的，更容易赢得芳心。
大部分女人总是会为自己的躯体担心，即便你和世上最高贵的女人上床，她也会着急你对她的胴体究竟有何看法。所以别忘了告诉你的女伴她很美丽，尽管俗套但永远是有效的一招，告诉她你最喜欢她身上的哪个部位，告诉她一切，让她对你有足够的信任好让你的头埋向她两腿之间。
现在该来仔细观察一下你眼前的景象了，很美，难道不是吗？没有比阴户更显女人自身独特魅力的东西了。我见过很多玉户，它们的大小、形状、颜色各不相同，有的向内摺起就象小女孩的咪咪；而有的则长着厚实柔软的阴唇显眼地在门口向你打招呼；有的栖息在浓密的阴毛之中；有的则被一层透明的细毛覆盖着。好好地欣赏你女人的与众不同之处，然后告诉她你爱她的独特所在。
谁都知道女人比男人更爱说话，这一点即使在做爱时也不会变，她们对话语的反应比较强烈，所以你与她交流得越多，越容易令她激动。当你一边抚摩轻拍她的阴户时，别忘了多与她说话，特别是关于你正在抚摩的地方。
现在再看着它，轻柔地分开大阴唇，便见到了小阴唇，如果你愿意的话，就轻轻地舔它们。然后将她阴户的上部慢慢拉开直到你看到她的阴蒂(或阴核)。女人阴蒂的尺寸是各不相同的，就象你们男人的阴茎也有长有短，但这对于她达到高潮的能力来说无关紧要。这只是说明，她的阴蒂越大，那藏在包皮下的部分也就越大。
当你去抚摩一个女人阴户的时候，请记得将手指弄湿。要么采用唾液要么用她分泌的体液，总之一定要湿，尤其是在你接触她阴蒂时。要知道女人阴蒂自身是不分泌任何体液的，而它又极其敏感。�@`<�你的手指是干燥的，就很容易戳伤它。不过你现在还不能急着去碰她的阴蒂，得一步一步来，在她兴奋之前，女人的阴蒂是很脆弱的。
慢慢接近她的阴户，女人要比男人更喜欢被挑逗。她两腿间的内侧是最柔软的所在。舔它，吻它，用舌尖在上面画各种图形。尽量地靠近她的阴户，然后在慢慢把头移开，让她更迫切地想要。
现在舔她大腿与阴户间的褶皱部位，把鼻子埋入她的毛发中。用舌来回抚动她的裂缝以给她刺激，但不要向下施力。当她开始情不自禁地绷紧身体并抬起双脚以便你能更加靠近她时，你可以做下一步了：把你的舌按在她的裂缝上。
吻她，先是轻轻地，然后逐渐加力，再用你的舌头分开她的大阴唇。当她完全张开时，用舌头顺着她的阴户上下动作。用手轻轻将她的双腿分开。记得在你品尝一个女人时所做的一切都该是轻柔的。
用舌头来舔她，这种感觉是很非凡的，这甚至可以激起她全身心的激情因为这时她的阴蒂会需要更多的照顾了。那么别犹豫了，看一下是否她的阴蒂已经坚硬得破出了原先覆盖着的包皮，如果是的话，就舔它。如果不是，可能它还在等待你的发掘。那就把舌头放在她阴户的上端去感觉阴蒂的存在。你可能不会立刻感觉到它，不过即使无法找出这颗小珍珠，你仍可以通过用舌头去舔阴蒂上面覆盖的皮肤来让它浮现出来。渐渐用力舔，并将她轻轻摁回包皮内。
温柔地将大阴唇分开，用舌头快速地轻打她的阴蒂，不管它是否有没有覆盖。当你感到她全身紧张，即将达到高潮时，嘴唇做圈形，把阴蒂含在嘴里。开始慢慢吮吸它，看看你的女人脸上有什么反应。如果她能坚持，那再用力点，如果她特别喜欢，则更加大力度。顺着她的节奏，如果她因高潮的紧张将臀部拱向空中，则随着她移动。你那热气腾腾的嘴应仍含着她的阴蒂，能不放就不放。这时大多数女人都会说一句相同的话：“别停，千万别停！”
你可别笑，这是有原因的。很多男人做了，却往往过早地停下。就象是吹箫，一样值得好好学习和尝试。我认识一个男人性交的本领极为蹩脚，但他口交技术一流，所以他从不担心缺少女人，身后总是有一串大闸蟹在等着。
来继续尝你的阴户...你另有一个诀窍来增强你女伴的快感。当她在充分享受你吮吸她阴蒂时，你不妨用手指去干她。在整个过程中，她始终会欢迎的。除了阴蒂周围的性感地带，女人仍有一个特别敏感的性区域，那就是她阴道的顶部，也是你手指应该反复摩擦的地方。因为你的阴茎实在远在十万八千里之外，只好让你的手指近水楼台先得月了。
要用两根手指，一根太细，而三根又太粗，以致于你进不了太内。此前你要确认手指是湿的，不致使她皮肤发炎。慢慢将手指滑入，逐渐加快速度，要有节奏感。随着她的需要加速，注意听她的呼吸。
她会让你知道你该做什么，如果你用嘴吮吸她的阴蒂，同时用手指摩擦她的阴道，那给她的刺激远远胜于你单根阴茎的工作。所以你有理由相信她会获得更为满足和强烈的高潮。如果你不能肯定的话，去观察一下她的反应。每个女人高潮的特征是不同的，有的女人兴奋时乳头就变硬，而有的只在高潮时才这样。你的女伴可能满脸红晕，也可能开始颤抖。了解她的特征，你会成为一个更体贴细心的情人。
当她达到高潮时，你的嘴可千万别放开她的阴蒂，在整个过程中都别放。当她渐渐从第一浪高潮中平静缓和下来时，用舌头稍稍向下舔去，嘴唇紧贴在阴蒂的上方，舌头开始在她的阴道里进出，如果手指也还在，一起动作，当然要轻柔，她的器官会变得极端敏感。
如果你做法正确，可能将你的女伴带向多重高潮。你知道这意味着什么吗？它的潜台词？有一个女人曾在这种情况下达到了56次高潮，你认为56次高潮对她起到了什么作用？--任何时候，只要你愿意，她就会在你身边。
也有些女人在阴户被品尝时喜欢男人用手指摩擦进出她们的后庭。
最后我要给你的建议是，在你让她达到高潮之后，千万别丢下她不管，继续用甜言蜜语哄她，爱抚她的身体，她的乳房，不要停止直到她完全平静下来。一个男人在射精之后可以心安理得地去睡觉，而女人天生喜欢在性爱之后的短时间里她的情人能继续给她温存。
口交可以成为性经验中最富激情的一种，但它需要你的努力。别心急，对你伴侣的各种信号多加注意，当然最重要的，你自己也应从中体会乐趣。希望你能将你女伴的微笑留到永远!
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